10 Tips for Public Speaking: Tip #8 Mistakes Happen, Keep Going [E087]
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In our episode today:
We are continuing our ten part series on ten tips for public speaking, and we have arrived at tip number eight — Mistakes Happen, Keep Going.
The original Toastmasters tip is listed as "Don't Apologize."
I find that worth challenging.
A brief, natural acknowledgment of a mistake is perfectly human. What we are really talking about is not dwelling. Not drawing attention. Not making the mistake bigger than it was.
I open with a scene I have watched play out many times at my Toastmasters club — the ah-counter who begins narrating their own filler words in real time. It is a perfect illustration of our word of the day:
Perseveration. The tendency to repeat or dwell on something well past the point where it serves any useful purpose.
I walk through three stages most communicators move through — from unawareness, to hyper-awareness and the spiral, to the veteran ease that comes with time and practice.
The goal was never perfection.
The goal is reaching a place where mistakes no longer derail you.
There is a point where dwelling on a mistake causes it to become the focal point of the entire interaction — and the audience now has to manage your emotional state rather than receive your communication.
Self-criticism pulls you out of presence. And presence is the entire prerequisite for connection.
We close with a callback to tip number seven: people want you to succeed.
If that’s true, and mistakes happen… Keep going!
Sincerely,
Craig O'Neill
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